Lighten up on yourself.
The universe does not expect you to have to struggle, it does not expect you to have to, any way, shape or form, suffer.
Challenges — yes, but those are exciting. Activity — yes, but that’s exciting. Struggle, suffer — no.
There is no expectation on behalf of the universe that you should have to struggle and suffer to be yourself.
All the struggling, all the suffering, all the doubt, all the fear comes from the misunderstanding of who you are and thus resisting your natural self. Because you are afraid to give up that control from the physical mind to the greater self for which it was designed.